Lots of reasons for giving thanks

I hope friends in the USA who celebrate Thanskgiving have had a great day. I am sitting on the couch at my in-law’s feeling like a round ball full of good food. If someone gave me a shove I think I would just roll across the floor!

I like this holiday because I think it is important to spend time thinking about all of the blessings I have received in my life. I am thankful that Jesus sacrificed himself for me. I am thankful to know His loving kindness and tender mercies.

I wonder where I would be without my wife, Michele. And how grateful for my four children as well as extended family. I am thankful to have a job and to have many friends.

Who could ask for more?

A wonderful anniversary weekend

For the first time in our married life — in other words, in six years — Michele and I were able to spend a night away from our children. We had a wonderful weekend celebrating our sixth wedding anniversary by staying at a four star hotel near the Magnificent Mile in downtown Chicago. In addition to walking around Millennium Park, which we hadn’t seen before, Michele and I spent several hours touring the Art Institute of Chicago. We spent most of our time in the American artists area, an area neither of us had seen before. I was dazzled by two large paintings by Frederic Remington. Remington is of course well known for his bronze sculptures and there were several of them on display, but his paintings had far more of an impact on me. Their luminescent, bright colors were stunning. We also saw famous works of art by Winslow Homer, Mary Cassatt, John Singleton Copley, and many others. We had a leisurely lunch in the Art Institute’s cafe and went in search of even more areas of the place that we hadn’t seen already. It was a very satisfying and enjoyable visit. After that, we checked into our hotel (the Swissotel – Chicago) and rested for a bit before venturing out for a fabulous dinner at one of my favorite restaurants anywhere in the world: Frontera Grill (owned and operated by world famous chef, Rick Bayless). We had a great dinner there and then walked over to Michigan Avenue where we window shopped for a while before heading back to the hotel. As an interesting side note, our visit to the Swissotel – Chicago was fitting because we spent part of our honeymoon there six years ago.

The next day (Sunday), we drove back to the suburbs, stopping at Oak Brook to have a great lunch at The Cheesecake Factory followed by a leisurely visit to a nearby Borders, where we bought some books for the kids before picking them up at my in-law’s. They had a great time, also, and it sounds like they behaved very well in our absence.

It was a very nice time for all of us and I am really thankful for the generous giving of Michele’s parents that enabled us to do this. Now that we’ve done it once, Michele and I are eager to do it again.

Status of our move

We’ve been going through a lot of uncertainty about our move back to the Chicago area. For one thing the time it is taking to get our Indiana house ready to show to potential buyers is enormous. There is so much to do and it is overwhelming. My brothers Dan and Tim helped out tremendously when they came last Friday through Saturday to paint and clean up the yard, but there is still a lot to do. A lot of the burden has fallen on Michele because I have been at work and during off hours, I have been working on catching up with grading and other work for the class I’m currently teaching for the LEEP program at UIUC GSLIS.

I’m happy to note, though, that last week we finally found a place to live in the northwestern suburbs of Chicago. The town we will be living in has a wonderful location about an hour’s drive from my in-law’s, with great schools for Keegan (and Tristan, who will start kindergarten next year). Our house is across the street from the commuter rail station so it will be a short walk to take the train to my work. There is a Starbucks one block away. The nice public library is a short walk of about four blocks. We won’t have a yard of our own but there are lots of parks and playgrounds we can walk to. We really praise God for providing for us and we are looking forward to the move in a few weeks.

We have a local family coming to see our house early next week and we hope that they will make an offer on our house. That would be a real answer to prayer, also.

Another Brinley scare

On Monday when we were getting ready to leave my in-law’s house to go back home, Brinley found a stray pill and decided it was candy and chewed it. Turns out it was Toprol XL, which my mother-in-law takes for her heart. When Michele discovered what Brinley had done, she tried to clean out her mouth and then called for me. I rushed her into the bathroom and forcibly rinsed her mouth out as much as I could while Michele called the Illinois Poison Control Center. They advised that we get Brinley to a doctor immediately because Toprol is quite dangerous, even in small amounts, for someone Brinley’s size and weight. Basically what it does is slow down the heart rate and lowers the blood pressure.

At the ER, they gave us a cup full of liquid charcoal stuff to force down Brinley’s throat. It was an incredible mess and of course, Brinley fought us the whole way. I must say that the nurse(s) weren’t very helpful at this part, they just gave us a Dixie cup of the stuff, said “Here, give this to her!” and left the room to leave us to figure out how to get Brinley to drink it! Finally, after getting her covered in pitch black goo, and getting a liberal amount of it on ourselves as well, Michele asked the nurse for a syringe. That helped a lot and we finally got it all down Brinley’s throat. The charcoal apparently helps to “bind” the drug in the stomach so that it isn’t readily absorbed into the blood stream.

The ER doctor told us they were going to admit Brinley into the pediatric ICU for observation, perhaps overnight. That’s what ended up happening. Poor thing, she had diodes all over her and it wasn’t a very comfortable experience. However, I’m thankful to report that she was released yesterday with a clean bill of health. She is fine. It could have been so much worse. We are somewhat shaken by the whole experience but thankful for the Lord’s mercy in the whole situation. We made it back to Indiana around midnight last night.

From ER to Green Bay

We spent part of this weekend travelling to a wedding in Green Bay, Wisconsin. On our way there we stopped at my in-law’s in Illinois. We shopped briefly at a local Target to get some things for the trip, and Brinley fell against the edge of the shopping cart and split open her head. She was bleeding all over the place and we rushed her to the nearest emergency room. The wound in her head required five stitches. It was pretty rough to watch her going through this whole thing but she actually seems none the worse for it all. The wound is healing nicely and she should have her stitches out later this week. Michele and I hope she doesn’t have much of a scar.

The wedding was for one of my wife’s cousins. It was a great time, I really admired the bride and groom for the emphasis on Christ throughout the ceremony as well as the reception. E.g. in lieu of the traditional clanging on glasses to get the bride and groom to kiss during the reception, they asked that people come up to a microphone and share their testimonies. It was good to see quite a few of Michele’s father’s side of the family.